Mama I Love You

I have an on and off relationship with my mom. Yeah, just like many other mother-daughter relation, during my teenage and young adult time I argued with her a lot. And mom objected plenty: about my mini skirt choices, my male friends or the breached curfew. Differ than my dad whose being protective by sending people or making sure I had someone who’s eyeing me, mom would use words. Flying out her teeth like speeding bullet: fast, sharp and hurtful.

Now, I have a good relationship with my mom. We went on a trip together exploring Vietnam and Cambodia, Singapore also Australia. Mom also takes care of my son whenever I needed to go for business trip but still with our current state, I still thought I had a terrible teenage year.

Anw as you can read from my blog posts, lately I journal a lot about my childhood involving her. And I am reminded that actually I had lots of good times with my mom. It’s funny how my mind tricks me to stick on the bad time teenager memories than the sweet childhood one whilst tbh I had even way better memories with her.

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Basti Talks #3 : Between an Animal and Cursing Words

“Mami, FAK!”
“What?!” Jawab saya dengan muka terkejut setengah hidup.
“FAK mami, FAK.”
“What Fak?” Tanya saya pelan-pelan dengan muka pucat, kenapa ini anak ngomongnya gini? Keknya nggak ada yang ngajari deh.

Lalu saya lihat iPadnya dia…

YA AMPUUUN, FOX, BASTI.  THAT’S A FOOOOX NOT FAK.

Udah pusing aja kepala mikir gimana ini meresrtuktur ulang kata-katanya kalo sampe cursing words itu muncul.  Hahaha. Ternyata hanya salah paham. Hahaha.

Basti Talks #2 : Jadi Mamak Mesti Pintar

“Mami, what’s this?” Tanya Basti penuh rasa ingin tahu. Btw Basti belom bisa membedakan pemakaian this and that. Sehingga kadang pemakaian indefinite pronoun ini pun tertukar-tukar.

“Oh, that’s a fence, Basti”
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About Being Strong

Quote of Being StrongIt was just about a week ago when my son fell and broke his wrist. I didn’t realize it soon, though. I thought it was just another fell as a part of his walking learning process. Yet, something caught me when I saw him grinning in pain during I nurse him. Moreover, the fact that he avoid to sleep in certain position set my motherhood instinct on alert.

Long story short, the orthopedic decided to Baca lebih lanjut