I loosen up my self But I am happy about it!

Quotes About MotherhoodNot so long a go Adrian and me announced on how happy we were to expect our baby. My pregnancy was a magical journey. It teaches me a lot about being patient, loving and dicipline at the same time. But being a mother brought me to a different level of life. Before I had a child, I would worry about little things (at that time, those little things were things I considered big matters :D) Such as, things that are not at their places. Shoes here, books there or towels on the chair not on the rack. I would piss off when I was late to the meeting. I would be upset if I couldn’t come to a party or social events.

But after I hold my baby on my arms… Those seem not so important anymore 😛

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Farewell

Me and RositaOur last picture together. Taken when I accompany you to visit the doctor. I miss you so much.

Eight days after your gone and my heart still ache. It is never easy to loose a friend, especially a close friend like you dear Rosi. I will always remember you fondly and have wonderful memories of many times spent with you during our younger years. After a long fight of cancer, you finally go, but your strong will to survive always inspire others. I still sob whenever I remember you but I keep reminding my self that you are in better place now. For sure you will always remain in my heart. Always.

FuneralSo long my Rosita, till we meet again after life.

It’s a Date!

Finally! I went on a date with Adrian last Saturday night. No nanny, no baby. Feels a bit weird though as the past one year there’s always baby boy between us 😀 We watched Mission Impossible, funny yet exciting movie. During the movie, I asked Adrian to hug me with a certain position just like when we were seeing each other before we got married.

MIAs he wrapped his hands along my soulders, I could feel that my heart light up a little bit. It gives me a lovely warm feeling inside and I like it so much! Geez, seemed it has been gazilion years since I had that kind of feeling. All this time I focus on my son only so that I forgot how to enjoy the day with hubby 😀 Golly! Don’t take me wrong, having activities with babyboy and hubby is exciting too! It’s enormous, in fact. But the joy of spending time just me and Adrian is a different kind of joy.

First date after having a baby.

First date after having a baby.

And u know, what? It felt really good! I think we will go on another date again. Just the two of us. Kiss kiss :*

About Being Strong

Quote of Being StrongIt was just about a week ago when my son fell and broke his wrist. I didn’t realize it soon, though. I thought it was just another fell as a part of his walking learning process. Yet, something caught me when I saw him grinning in pain during I nurse him. Moreover, the fact that he avoid to sleep in certain position set my motherhood instinct on alert.

Long story short, the orthopedic decided to Baca lebih lanjut

Not Just a Cup of Tea

This post supposed to be written a week or two before, but I just didn’t have enough time to do it. Why? Are you asking the reason? Well… Soon, you’ll know after reading this. The same reason for this blog being absent for a while.

Anw, never I thought I would truly appreciate a sweet, beautiful sensation of a warm tea flowing through my throat. Here’s why…

This is not just a cup of tea. This is my remedy! :P

This is not just a cup of tea. This is my remedy! 😛

So, I had a hard day. Baca lebih lanjut

Car Seat, Penting Nggak Sih?

Saya membiasakan ‪#‎BabyBoy duduk di car seat setiap kali bepergian dengan mobil. Yang mengerti pentingnya safety sih pada acung jempol tapi ada juga beberapa teman yang menuduh saya nggak sayang anak karena nggak memangku BabyBoy.

 

Temen yang nuduh gitu mungkin belum tau pentingnya car seat. Car seat berguna banget melindungi bayi dari Baca lebih lanjut

Pertama Kali Ikutan Kelas Zumba

Zumba Dance udah ngetrend dari beberapa tahun lalu. Tapi terus terang saya belom pernah ikutan. Katrok ya? Well, dua tahun terakhir kan saya masuk gua karena hamil :p Lha mosok lagi hamil saya gedubrakan ikut latihan kelas Zumba? Bisa ditalak ama misua entaaar 😀 hehehe.

Let's cut down some fat! Pssst kelas zumba itu serunya kalo rame-rame ama temen. Gerakannya ada yang berpasangan soalnya. Dan biar kekinian, maka sebelum mulai kelas selfie dolo duuunk! ^_^ Hahaha

Let’s cut down some fat! Pssst kelas zumba itu serunya kalo rame-rame ama temen. Gerakannya ada yang berpasangan soalnya. Dan biar kekinian, maka sebelum mulai kelas selfie dolo duuunk! ^_^ Hahaha

Anw, Zumba itu adalah suatu olahraga kebugaran yang menggabungkan beberapa tarian jadi satu. Ada tarian Latin seperti Salsa dan Merengue, hip hop, Rock ‘n Roll sampai seni bela diri. 70% adalah dansa dan 30% fitness. Awalnya saya agak kuatir kalau saya nggak bisa ngikutin gerakannya, tapi si mbak instruktur yang cantik di Fitness First bilang nggak usah takut. “Yang penting enjoy sama musiknya, sama kelasnya. Nggak ada gerakan benar dan salah. Yang penting hepi-hepi!” Wah, denger begitu saya langsung semangat goyang. Hehehe. Baca lebih lanjut

Tough Love: Cinta yang Membebaskan Namun Tetap Mendidik

Jadi ibu itu punya banyak fase ya. Dan menurut saya, setiap fase itu adalah momen pembelajaran. Contohnya, pas fase 6 bulan pertama, yang jadi isu pokok adalah soal ASI saya cukup atau enggak, capeknya kejar tayang mompa, sampe begadang karena #BabyBoy agak demam atau rewel abis imunisasi… Nah sekarang pas #BabyBoy sebulan lagi umurnya 1 tahun, isu yang saya hadapi lain lagi. Saat ini mah mesti pasang mata bener-bener alias nggak bisa meleng! #BabyBoy demen banget masukin sesuatu ke mulutnya. Mulai dari mainan, bawang merah sampe masukin batu juga pernah! Mungkin ia pikir mulutnya itu kantong Doraemon yang muat segala hal kali yaaa 😀 Hahaha.

Selain masukin benda-benda ke mulutnya, saat ini #babyBoy juga lagi hobi merambat di kursi atau meja lalu ngulik-ngulik semua yang ada di atasnya. Jadi ya saya nggak pernah berharap meja atau kursi di rumah rapi sih 😀 Udah tau itu ulah siapa! Hihihi. Kalau rapi malah jadi heran, apa #BabyBoy sakit dan nggak mau main?

2Tapi dua hal di atas sih masih nggak seberapa soal contoh nggak boleh meleng. Baca lebih lanjut